Friday, October 3, 2008

The number three

October 3rd: three as in good things always happen in threes.

October 3rd is the six month anniversary of our "Gotcha Day." On April 3, 2008, Garrett left the orphanage forever. It was a bittersweet day, to say the least. Watching his little buddies say their goodbyes to a boy who was so fired up to leave seemed somewhat surreal. I know I’ve said this many times before, but he has truly never looked back. He has never talked about Kazakhstan. He looks at pictures and doesn’t remember names. The minute we called him Garrett, he never called himself Nurlan again. (Can’t figure that one out, could it be denial or something else?)

That day when our driver Yerlan dropped us off at the apartment, Garrett had a mini melt down. Naturally, we thought he was scared and missing home. Turns out, he was just exhausted and didn’t know where to sleep. (While I showed him where the potty was, it never occurred to me to show him his bedroom—duh.) He did a lot of self rocking that night, banging his head against the couch and sucking his thumb. It was painful to watch. (Happily, this has all gone away except the thumb sucking, which usually happens when he’s in a deep slumber.) He’s come along way these past six months and so have we.

Mommy, Papa, Cody, Little Guy and Biddie (AKA Jellie and Jammers) love you Garrett.

October 3rd is “Gotcha Day” for the Serra family from Tampa. Susan Serra has been literally “living it up” in Kazakhstan for nine (count ‘em) weeks and today she finally got to spring her little cutie, Leeza Grace from the babyhouse. Woo-hoo, a big congratulations go out to Joe, Susan and Sean. Everyone in the Kazakh adoption community is celebrating along with you!!!!!

October 3rd is also the day Eileen and Patrick, PAPs from Virginia, embarked on an adventure of a lifetime. They’ve been waiting on pins and needles (along with the rest o the Kazakh adoptive blogging community) for their LOIs, but they have it along with their trusty Visas and are now somewhere over the Atlantic bound for Amsterdam. There they’ll have an 11-hour layover to rest up before reaching their final destination, Almaty. Then it’s off on a four-hour drive to Astana. The town they’re adopting from is either Burabay or Shchuchinsk (hoping it’s Burabay because Shchuchinsk is just too hard to spell). Sometime on Saturday, or maybe even Monday, they’ll get to meet their Kazakhcutie—and that’s when the fun really begins, a dream of a lifetime for these two.

Both Susan and Eileen have been real champions of our adoption process. They’ve checked on our blog almost every day and have left encouraging comments along the way. We wish both the Serra’s and the Hochstein’s lots of love and happiness with their babies—both families are truly amazing and my life has been enriched tenfold just by knowing them. God bless.

Now let's hear some "three cheers" for October 3rd. Hip, hip, hooray.

Okay, good things also happen in fours. Today is Angela and Scott's "Gotcha Day." They were granted immediate custody of their dear baby girl Alia. Congratulations--October 3rd is a very special day indeed.

18 comments:

Our Family of Bloggers said...

You know, I was just sitting in my office thinking of what a special day this was for the Serras and the Hochsteins. I had no idea this is Garrett's Six Month anniversary! You are right- good things do always happen in threes!
It is quite amazing to think all that has happened for your little Kazman over the past 6 months. You sure have all come a long way.
Happy anniversary!

Trudi said...

Happy 6 month anniversary! Garrett is a darling little boy.

CL Lambert said...

Wow Karen - hard to believe it has been six months already! Look how far Garrett has come and look how far the three of you have come as a family. Congrats on this milestone - one of many, many, many more.

Paula said...

I am so happy that Garrett has adjusted so well. What a happy ending and a new beginning for all of you!

Jack and Cheryl said...

I can't believe that it's been six months already -- time is flying. I love being able to follow your blog and see how things are going. Garrett has changed a lot since we met him in Kazakhstan -- he was a happy boy then, but now he beams! You're doing a great job!!!

The Gobble's (Lanetta) said...

can't believe it's already been six months... wow!!!
Oct. 3rd rocks!!!!

dnd82001 said...

The world is a happy amd wonderful place!!

Darlene

Kim said...

You need winter coats and hats in Minnesota already? How fun! We just started getting the nice cold weather down here. It's also the day Angela and Scott went to court! What a wonderful day for all.

Susan said...

awww SHUCKS, you are so sweet. :)

I love seeing Garrett and see how wonderful he's progressed. It is amazing-and also love to watch you come forward as "mama bear" and roll your sleeves up and get involved in "everything garrett"

you are his best cheerleader. I guess that is why we hit it off...cuz I am the same way with my kid..oh wait..NOW I HAVE 2. Sean already told Leeza "his mom is sooooooooooooooooo embarassing"

I love seeing Garrett's progress-he's such a handsome kid-and now you can see how happy he is too.
Good job Mom-so many positive changes in just 6 months.

can't wait to meet him myself.
happy anniversary, baby. :)

Jennifer said...

6 months already!! Oh my goodness! How time flies. I didn't realize it's been that long already! Congratulations to you guys!

Matthew Ruley said...

Hurray! Hard to imagine its been 6 months for you. Wow. Where does time fly? How long ago was it that you were here in Tampa for the mom event?

Tricia said...

Happy cheers for everyone!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on your 6 month anniversary! Garrett has come such a long way in such a short time. We can't wait to meet you all on the 18th!
Also, a big "congratulations!" to all the other families!

McMary said...

HIP HIp Hooray!
Hip Hip HOoray!
Hip HIp Hooray!
and the fourth one for Alia
Hip HIp Hooray!

Congrats on your 6th month anniversary--what a great family.

Anonymous said...

First: Garrett is just about the most beautiful boy I have ever seen. I'm so happy he has joined right in your family!

Second: Thanks for mentioning the other "October gang." They have been so incredibly supportive of those of us who traveled before them, and it's heart warming to hear their stories.

Just wanted to thank you for BOTH!
Shannon

Alaina said...

What a great day! Happy 6 months for your family! We wish the other families all the best as well - it truly is the journey of a lifetime.

marsrob said...

SO MUCH HAPPINESS! HIP HIP HOORAY!!! There is so much to be grateful for!

Angela said...

Geez, Karen. Tears. Thanks for the mention. Three is an awesome number in my life for so many reasons and I didn't really put it all together until I read this post. We did not have any of those coincidences/connections with our adoption, but now we do.

HERE'S TO THREE!