Monday, January 7, 2008

To girlfriends everywhere

This was sitting in my email box today. It was sent by a friend and thought it was worth sharing.

"Time passes
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do .
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT

Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girlfriend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or come in and carry you out.

Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other."

Thank you to all my girlfriends, far and near. Without you, life would be less colorful.


I especially want to dedicate this post to my dear friend Suzanne. Here she is with her son Jack. She was the one who first suggested I adopt so many moons ago. She's been my champion throughout this process. She's the sister I never had.

5 comments:

Susan said...

Amen for girlfriends! I couldn't agree with you more.
Girfriends in the flesh, and girlfriends on the internet (that sounds so kinky, doesn' it?)
but, I have found such unexpected support and camaraderie in my girfriend blogger friends.
SO, thank you , friend!

Angela said...

That is SO sweet!

Paula said...

What a fabulous post. I think I'll email it to my sister.

Anonymous said...

Great post! You're right, girlfriends are great and those of us "dotcomrades" share such a bond in adoption I think our friendships are extra special ;-)

Unknown said...

I'm just catching up on your blog and read this......so beautiful, Karen, and I couldn't agree more! I simply don't know what I'd do without my gal-friends - my other sisters. :) And that DEFINITELY means YOU! Thanks for posting that!